Teen Attitude

One thing that always comes with the growing teen in order to become a grown adult is Attitude. Some teens have an attitude that are usually worse than others, But there's nary an argument over the fact that a teen hasn't been affected by the attitude of their parents. It's just how the life shows you it's true colours.

Teenage years can be rough as well as good, According to an
old psychology data, It's been proved that one-fourth of teens has rough times. Another data proves that one- fifth of teens experience a carefree adolescence.

WHY SUCH DIFFERENCES?

The main objective of a teen is to find oneself. Adoloscence helps you in finding what you really want by doing things you like.Anyone should have a right of living his or her life on his/her terms. And one mustn't be judged, But apprantely in the world especially in INDIA, People are somewhat judgmental, while in other developed nations it's not the case, They are free to do whatever they want and live their life on their terms.

However finding an identity is just very easy to say, but it isn't necessarily a cakeawalk. There is always a transition from childhood to puberty, That leads on to adulthood.

Being a teenager isn't easy as you think. And although we may occasionally get an attitude with adults, It's just a part of growing up.

TEEN THINKING

"OUR MIND IS A DELIGHTFUL CREATURE, IT CAN BE A BEAUTIFUL SERVANT OR A DANGEROUS MASTER. WHAT WE REALLY HAVE IS A 'CHOICE'" 

What was he thinking?" It's the familiar cry of bewildered parents trying to understand why their teenagers act the way they do.

How does the boy who can thoughtfully explain the reasons never to drink and drive end up in a drunken crash? Why does the girl who knows all about birth control find herself pregnant by a boy she doesn't even like? What happened to the gifted, imaginative child who excelled through high school but then dropped out of college, drifted from job to job and now lives in his parents' basement

If you think of the teenage brain as a car, today's adolescents acquire an accelerator a long time before they can steer.

Adolescence has always been troubled, but for reasons that are somewhat mysterious, puberty is now kicking in at an earlier and earlier age.

At the same time, first with the industrial revolution and then even more dramatically with the information revolution, children have come to take on adult roles later and later.

What happens when children reach puberty earlier and adulthood later? The answer is: a good deal of teenage weirdness. Fortunately, developmental psychologists and neuro scientists are starting to explain the foundations of that.

The first of these systems has to do with emotion and motivation. It is very closely linked to the biological and chemical changes of puberty and involves the areas of the brain that respond to rewards.

Becoming an adult means leaving the world of your parents and starting to make your way toward the future that you will share with your peers. Puberty not only turns on the motivational and emotional system with new force, it also turns it away from the family and toward the world of equals.

The second crucial system in our brains has to do with control; it channels and harnesses all that seething energy.

Instead of simply giving adolescents more and more school experiences, those extra hours of after-school classes and homework—we could try to arrange more opportunities for apprenticeship.

"Take your child to work" could become a routine practice rather than a single-day annual event, and college students could spend more time watching and helping scientists and scholars at work rather than just listening to their lectures. Summer enrichment activities like camp and travel, now so common for children whose parents have means, might be usefully alternated with summer jobs, with real responsibilities.

The good news, in short, is that we don't have to just accept the developmental patterns of adolescent brains. We can actually shape and change them.

                                Emotional maturity in teens

It can be defined as the ability of one person to control it's emotions and have full accountability with his life and it's related dramas. A significant part of developing a high emotional quotient does revolve around having the ability to handle anger, disappointment, guilt, resentment, fear, jealousy, grief, insecurity and emotions that involve any other person.

Emotional maturity is the perception or vision about seeing life clearly and accurately, and further dealing with it. If you think life is a cakewalk then you can't be any more naive. It doesn't mean you should live life in make-believes and fantasy, but living in the present and shaping your future by learning from your past.

Emotional immaturity can be extremely difficult to cope up with, it's because when you are not matured enough, you don't posses the ability of interpreting and reacting to various changes going around you. They try to control their world by shaping it into what they idealize than seeing the reality.

     "PEOPLE LIVE THEIR LIVES BOUND BY WHAT THEY ACCEPT AS CORRECT AND TRUE. THAT'S HOW THEY DEFINE "REALITY". BUT WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO BE "CORRECT" OR "TRUE"? MERELY VAGUE CONCEPTS.....THEIR "REALITY" MAY ALL BE A MIRAGE. SO CAN WE CONSIDER THEM TO SIMPLY BE LIVING IN THEIR OWN WORLD, SHAPED BY THEIR BELIEFS?"


These are the signs of an immature person:-

> When things go wrong, it is always someone else's fault.

> They are highly sensitive about when something is done to them,  but completely unaware of what they do to others.

> They are victims, They enjoy playing this part. Bad things always happen with them, but their poor choices play no part

> Relationships are short lived


As a mature,  person you might think that you can fix this person, But the reality is these issues are often deeply seeded and you can find this very challenging to have fair, balanced relationship or friendship with someone of this kind.

                           TEEN RELATIONSHIP...

Although they are very often fun and enjoyable, many people experience great anxiety about relationships during their teen years. This short article will attempt to address some of the areas that teenagers find difficult to cope with.

Emotions

Relationships can affect us very deeply on an emotional level, particularly romantic relationships. Teens can easily become overwhelmed by the strong feelings evoked by their early experiences of love and heartbreak. It is important to view teenage relationships as an opportunity to learn and grow rather than taking them too seriously. If they become serious over time then it will happen naturally and feelings will intensify accordingly. Give your heart slowly and enjoy the experience.

Break-Ups

One of the most difficult things in life is accepting that someone we care for no longer wishes to be involved in our lives. It can also be hard when the situation is reversed and we want to end a relationship. Over time these things get (a little) easier to cope with but the truth is that break-ups are never fun. It is important to try to manage these unpleasant events with dignity and respect. One of the most hurtful things is when the person initiating the break-up humiliates the other party. Obviously this should be avoided, as a person who behaves in this way will soon get a bad name and may find that others become wary of involvement with him/her.

Expectations, Peer Pressure and Sex

These days it can be difficult to know what sorts of behaviour are appropriate in social situations and within relationships. 
When and with whom we choose to have our first sexual experience is a very important decision. In the past the social standard was that you waited until your wedding night to have sex whereas now there is no hard-and-fast rule, except the lawful age of consent. Legally people are 
Very often young people are made to feel inexperienced or prudish by the comments of peers – sometimes they feel under pressure to engage in a sexual relationship before they are ready or really want to, just so they can feel as “grown-up” as their friends. There are many reasons to have sex, but the fact that your friends want you to is one of the very worst. It is girls who have the most to lose here, as they are the ones who can become pregnant as the result of thoughtless sexual activity.
Another possible adverse consequence of careless sexual intercourse is the transmission of Sexually Transmitted Disease (STD). The rates of STDs are worryingly high among teens.
 Our sexuality is a very important and intimate part of ourselves, and sexual behaviours can stimulate very strong emotions and feelings – be sure that you are in a relationship which is solid enough to withstand these before you take things further.


Although these decisions are very personal it is a good idea to talk to someone you trust when making them, preferably an adult – a parent, a teacher or an older sibling. If you are making these decisions and feel that there is nobody you can talk to you could speak to your GP or call a youth helpline.
 It is beyond the scope of this article to go into the topic in depth but a number of support organisations can be found on the web who can guide you in taking the necessary steps. 

                               
             What is life of a teenager?

A teen is like a fire. With proper guidance, They have the ability to change the very mould of the world. Without proper direction, These fires can easily be wasted, while at worst, they can go out of control and turn to a menace. As we know every coin has two sides.
But to direct and guide it we need to understand the purpose of being a teenager itself.

The journey of adolescence is nested between childhood and adulthood. Teens are not that much indulged in playing child games, But on the other hand they don't yet have the knowledge or experience to be fully engaged in adultery activities. Youth can be considered as the most precious yet difficult period in anyone's life.

Where most of the youth loses their way is the ques "how can I make my life meaningful?". They are raging with adrenaline and confidence. They want to change the world and they think that they actually can, Unlike the adults who convince themselves with the outlook of the world, Teens cannot tolerate such things, which ultimately leads to conflict.

How can one channel the energy of the teen?

To channel the energy our society must have the perception to figure out that the restlnessness and hunger in a teen is Spiritualistic instead being a materialistic one.

To overcome one must have spiritual weapons in their grasp, So that they can dodge the obstacles they face. The first weapon is the understanding of the lesson that their lives have a higher purpose.

One must always occupy a moral high ground in every scenario they face. Also they must be ready to handle any situations regarding any field.

At last I want to say that nothing is bad in this world it's the situation that compels one to do so. So be optimistic and use the wrath of your youth to burn the disbelief that's lacthing you.  

                                                  

THE GIRL WHO JUST DONT GIVE UP  

To all the people who are growing up in an unequal world which simply dies not recognize or celebrate their uniqueness.... 

It is not every day that an auditorium full of eminent people mostly in their 40s who have carved their own niche in society , will listen with rapt attention when a teenager is delivering a speech.
but then , AISHA CHOUDHRY is no ordinary teenager and her speech, delivered at a high profile TEDx event in Pune .

While the eighteen minute TEDx talk was an eye opener in itself, what made it even more compelling was the fact that the teenager who delivered it actually was on an oxygen tube that helped her to breathe while she took on that task. It has been her constant companion for the last few years because she has been largely dependent on after she developed a debilitating condition called PULMONARY FIBROSIS that reduced her lung function to just 20% of what it should have been .

She is an artist of remarkable talent and an individual of remarkable fortitude and wisdom.  I would like to share with our readers the videos of Aisha Chaudhary – and also the life lessons that I think each one of us can learn from this positive little individual.

1.      Happiness is a worthy life ambition

When we say ‘ambition’ we tend to think of a career, success and recognition. Certainly each one of us should strive to be as successful as possible within our chosen spheres, but the ambition of ‘merely’ attaining happiness is a very worthy one too. When you think of it, isn’t all ambition geared towards feeling happy? If you want to be rich, famous or successful, you want these things because you believe they will make you happy. So really the ultimate goal of life is happiness – or at least it should be.

2.      Optimism is always an option

Your doctor could tell you that your new born baby has less than a year to live. Or you could be told that you have to live the rest of your life with terrible disease. You could decide that things are hopeless, or you could decide that you choose to grab whatever hope is held out to you. There is always something positive in each situation. Sometimes life seems to ask me to choose between the devil and the deep blue sea. But even in the grimmest of situations, there is some hope.

3.      The power of the mind is limitless

Human beings have a tremendous ability to achieve what we set our minds on. The power of the mind can cure illness – the efficacy of placebo medications is an example of this. We have that ability within each one of us: to defeat the odds and accomplish that which seemed difficult; even impossible.

5.      You are never too young to be wise

Aisha Chaudhary is 17 but she is wise way beyond her years. She has sorted out life in ways that most older people can only hope to do. Wisdom is not about the number of years we spend on earth, but about the way in which we utilise the time we have here. And yes! There is no indignity in accepting the wisdom and insight of a person we perceive as young and inexperienced – a small child can teach us a thing or two about honesty, about embracing the joys of life, of loving unreservedly.

6.      Anyone can dare to dream

So what if you have a life threatening condition, struggle with financial difficulties or have any number of other problems. You can still dream to achieve what you desire. Just because you and I may be hamstrung with seemingly insurmountable problems, you and I don’t have to give up on our dream; give up on life!

7.      Problem or Opportunity? You choose

As Aisha Chaudhary turned to art when she was in a wheel chair and unable to participate in normal activities that kids around her took for granted, so can we transform a problem into an opportunity. It all depends upon our perspective. We could look at a broken leg as a terrible misfortune that keeps us from a normal life or we could look upon it as a wonderful opportunity to listen to music, read books and watch movies that we’ve been meaning to – things that we didn’t seem able to find time for otherwise.

8.      “Why Me” is a Futile Phrase

No matter how terribly unfortunate you think yourself to be, no matter how terrible your affliction, someone else is sure to be worse off than you.  Self pity is not only futile; it is a most unattractive quality. People who might otherwise sympathise will reconsider their compassion – surely if you’re giving yourself that much sympathy, you will not need more from others!

AISHA HAS USED A PHRASE TO DESCRIBE HER OWN JOURNEY - "SINGING IN THE LIFE BOAT". THE ART GIVES SHAPE TO THAT PHRASE. THE WAVES ARE SWELLING TO SWALLOW THE BOAT WHICH IS STILL SAILING HIGH AND AISHA (THE CAPTAIN OF THE BOAT) IS DEPICTED AS A MUSICAL NOTE. ITS GENTLE CURVES RELATE TO THE FEMININE PERSONALITY AND ALSO WITH THE CENTRAL THEME OF THE PHRASE. ALL THIS IS HAPPENING BELOW THE GENTLE ARC OF THE STAR FILLED SKY. THE STARS ARE THE PRECIOUS MOMENTS OF HAPPINESS AND SELF-DISCOVERY IN THE REIGN OF DARKNESS.

LIFE AFTER 10th

10th standard is the starting and the most crucial point in the life of a student. After 10th a student’s life goes for a big change.  It is now that he takes up subjects of his choice and puts focused efforts for better career prospects in future. This is a time when most of the students get confused too much and takes a decision which he starts to dislike later. Students often find it difficult to decide which path they should choose and go. The question which stands in front of students are:
What actually a Stream is?Which stream should I choose after 10th?     Do I need to take competitive coaching After 10th  ? Is this the right time or its little bit earlier?   Should I take state board or CBSE board or ICSE after 10th?  Is Private Schools are better or should I go for government school? Should I go for diploma or other courses or complete schooling After 10th?

Choosing a career in a particular stream or profession right at this point of time has a long lasting impact on a student's future. It is very important for any student to choose carefully from various options available to him/her in which he/she is interested. In order to achieve success, one has to select the path which they like to walk on. Good judgment and right kind of aptitude when coupled with guidance in the right direction to pick up a definite stream helps one in choosing the right career option.

So from the very beginning a student should be careful in making choice of their stream. 
As soon as a student reaches 10th standard, some kind of pressure of choosing a career path linger in their mind. Because by then they are at the edge of completing their school life and it is peak time to choose ones career path than ever before.

Career in commerce are like

BBA
B.Com
CA
Management
Civil services examinations like IAS,IPS,IESBank exams, etc.

Career in sciences are like

Geology
Meteorology
Oceanography
Biological Scientists and Biotechnology/Genetic Scientists
Biochemistry
biotechnology
Anthropology
Food Technology
Horticulture
Forestry



Career in Arts

designing
fashion technology
textile designers
accessory, jewelry,interior and exterior designers,fine arts
cartoonist
photography
print journalism
mass communication
film making
advertising
public relations

You have to decide which streams better for you and what are your skills, so first of all select that what you have to do in future and according to them select your stream

Hope this was helpful..! :-)

                                                  Teen Depression















During teenage it's not unusual for anyone to experience "to feel out of blues" occasionally. Adolescence has always proven to be an unsettling time, Caused by the no.of physical, emotional, psychological and surrounding changes that accompany this stage of our life.

Expected academic, social, or family pressure can create a strong sense of rejection and often may lead to disappointment. When things go bad at home or at school, Most commonly teens overreact. Many young ones feel that life has not been fair to them. They feel "stressed out" and confused mot of the times. And to worsen the situation they are often bombarded by conflicting messages from their parents, friends and society.

Such times can be very disturbing for any teen and they well might use some valuable adult guidance. Just to understand and cope up with such "changes".

Dealing with teen Pressure:-

When teens feel low, there are some effective ways in which they can cope up and avoid serious depression. Here are some of the few suggestion that might help you with developing
a sense of acceptance and belonging that teens require in abundance.

1) Make new friends

2) Participate in co-curricular activities or have some good hobbies

3) Join NGOs and offer programs for such teens

4) Ask a trusted one for help

When teens are depressed, they face really hard time accepting the fact that their outlook can be improved. But giving a professional treatment can pose a dramatic impact on their lives. It can always put them back on track and it always does bring them hope for future.

Sorry for the delay guys our exams were going on, That's the reason why we weren't able to post any articles.

Glad to be back :)

Vishwapriya Iyer

Rohan Singh

                                             Waiting!!!!!...:)...:(....

As I cuddle up on cold nights,
restless; I memorize those kisses and fights.
Life was awesome; with you by my side,
Presently, it is full of lonely rides.
I often walk; aimlessly.
Completely dumbfounded at what I do,
My life has lost its purpose,
It's hard to believe yet true.
Sorrow-stricken me,
With eyes teary wet,
Blaming my mistakes and myself,
For I wrote my own fate.
'No one's perfect',
You used to say.
But I can hardly believe,
It ended this way.
In the pool of solitude,
I often swim,
In search of love,
In search of that 'hope-beam'.
This pool of emptiness,
It's killing me inside,
Drowning in this deadly pool,
With no one to guide.
Return to me
And take me in your lap.
I pray you my love,
I want to be awakened from this nap.
Take me away;
Away from this world of strife,
I really NEED you,
To complete my life.

                                                         

                    Help your teen to                                     develop career!!

As the parent of a learning disabled child, you may be concerned about your child's career goals. Does your teen have an idea of what she wants to be? Does he know what training is necessary to reach his goals?Is the career goal realistic for his abilities? These are the ques that teens face who have learning disabilities.

Discovering your teen's career path is a process that begins simply by determining what he hopes to achieve in his career. Talking with your teen about her hopes and dreams for a career is a good way to begin that process.

What makes your teen tick? What does your son do when he has free time? Does your daughter enjoy any hobbies? Does your teen enjoy volunteer work?

Some other ques to get your teen thinking about the future!

1) What would I Love to do?, even if I didn't get paid for it?

2) Do I have hobbies or interests that could lead to a career?

3) What do I want to be doing 5 years from now? Ten years now? Twenty years from now?

If your child truly has no idea where to start with career exploration, now is a good time to exploring a broad range of possible careers. Assist your teen with taking Inventories, and they should help you target some areas to begin researching careers. Armed with the results of your career interest inventories.

When you have narrowed down some possible career choices, help your teen to take a good honest look whether that would help him meet his life goals.

Once your teen has identified some career possibilities, the next step is to develop short terms goals to help him get where he wants to be in life and work. What are some things your teen can do that will place her in a better position to achieve her goals?

As the parent of a young adult with a learning disability, you face the added dilemma of helping your teen find the right career based on their interest as well as their ability. While everyone faces this reality, parents of teens with disabilites may worry that their field of choice is narrowed by the disability. Despite this, it is important to remain focused on the reality that your teen may not be realistically academically preapared to enter a career feild at highest levels.

First of all Always stay with your child in  every scenario, Never leave them or let them think they are alone because at the end It's you who's going to help then comfort them and Belive in them.

I especially dedicate this article to my friend, blog partner Viswapriya..:), Since her parents are going abroad in case of work. She would be on herself for almost 2 years, I want to let her know that your parents are with you every second in your life. No matter what the situation you face because REMEMBER THIS For them you are always a child who knows nothing and needs help and that's true to last word.
Thanks :)

ALCOHOLISM AND TEENAGE

Have you ever been offered an alcoholic beverage? Or someone saying “Just have a little sip?” The majority of people have their first drink by the age of 14, and that first sip can be a long term problem in many of teenagers’ lives. Teenagers should be taking better care of their bodies considering the fact that they are still young. Alcohol has many side effects, therefore it should be avoided. If you allow underage drinking it will cause different reactions to the human body.

            The brain possesses many different functions that are in control of the human body and our actions in general. Memory and coordination are one of them. For example, the brain continues to develop in a person’s early twenties and when the brain is exposed to alcohol consumption, it may alter brain growth, coordination, and memory length. Teenagers who abuse of alcohol at an early age are considered to have a high brain damage than those who are not exposed to alcohol. Under the use of alcohol, the coordination of the human body can react in different ways without making sense, alcohol clouds your brain and hinders the ability of making decisions such as remembering those around you or even the ability to walk correct. The balance and coordination of a person start losing control once you let the alcohol control you.

            Furthermore, a person’s speech is another effect of underage drinking that can be altered by the use of alcohol. For example, studies have shown that alcohol increases the effects of the inhibitory neurotransmitter GABA in the brain which are nerves signaling chemicals that decrease regular activity in neurons. GABA causes the sluggish movements and slurred speech that often occur in alcoholics after a long period of drinking.

            Lastly, teenagers have the best vision considering that they are at a young age. For example, the use of alochol when they are still young can cause long term problems with one’s vision that might result in blindness after a long period of time without receiving any help when it could have been avoided.

            The effects of underage alcoholism in the human body are loss of memory and coordination, slurred speech and blurred vision which can cause other disorders concerning your health. It is not about “fitting in” or being cool, it’s about taking a good care of your human body while one is young and can. Take care of your body and it will take care of you later. If you experiment with alcohol, you can hurt someone you love including yourself, so why drink it?......

                                     Socialization in teens

Teenage is a state where independence is the key. That said, it's likely that your teen is interested in spending more of her time with her peers instead of her family. While she will still use you as her home base.

Cliches -
The days of a watchful adult telling a group of kids to "play nice" is long gone by teenage years. As friends become increasingly more important your child. It's likely that he will feel the need to fit into his middle or high school's social scene. Although you want your teen to have friends, But also on the Smarter side of things you don't want your teen to adopt unhealthy ways such as - Smoking, Drinking And crash diet etc. So talk to your teen about such cliches, and help him understand that his real friends won't ask him to do things that he thinks are wrong or ostracize him for acting as an individual.

Social media -
While you may have spent the majority of your own teen years chatting on the phone and passing notes in class. The contemporary child has a much more tech-savvy approach to socialization. Social media use is a popular way for teens to connect with their real life and online friends.

Pros-
According to a report it states that 29 percent of teens feel that social networking decreases shyness and 15% say it gives better self image.

Cons -
Posting pictures and personal information on a public site can leave your teen vulnerable
to adult predators who are online. Talk to your teen about social media safety before she posts anything

Being socialized has it pros and cons, So my advice to teenagers is that you should be more cautious about sharing yourself on a public scale. And remember this

"Being social doesn't come from how many circles are you in or how many friends you have rather than the way you carry yourself in the society and how successful you are actually defines your social significance as a person"......  

      GO OUT AND PLAY !!!!!

       

We live in an automated world today, and are so adapted to reserved places that our entertainment also stays indoors most of the time. Everyone knows that it is not very healthy. Outdoor games are the best ones that along with great entertainment, help us develop both physically and mentally. This article discusses about the importance of outdoor games, suggesting some games that you will enjoy playing anytime.

Outdoor games provide not only entertainment, but also good physical exercise that will beat your inner stress to keep you happy and active. Movies, books, and computer games can only give temporary entertainment and relief from your day-to-day stress.

The benefits of investing energy in outdoor games

On the other hand, the outdoor games boost your energy and spirit levels to help you live a healthy life. The outdoor games and activities serve as a healthy recreation for anyone, be it men, women, or children. It will hardly consume your 10 minutes, but will make you so active and happy that your days will become more productive. Most of you are aware of the common outdoor games that you may or may not enjoy anymore, so for a change, why not try something different and enticing?

Play with your family

Come together with your entire family in a park or some outdoor location and play somekind of game that everyone is sure to enjoy. Say for example, the Tug-of-war game, for which the only thing that you need is a strong rope. You can have fun time together, playing outdoors.

Campfire games

Occasionally, wherever possible, pitch a tent outdoors and enjoy the camp fire games with your friends and family.

Outdoor fishing

This would be quite interesting and adventurous, where you can enjoy the beautiful nature's company as well.

Biking

It is a simple game and exercise that you can make more interesting by joining groups and friends, planning short treks whenever possible.

Go for a splash

Swimming is a great outdoor exercise and entertainment that will refresh your body and mind. You can make this your daily habit, as a stress buster at the end of the day.

Final word

The  kind of game you choose does not matter, but your regular and active participation will definitely boost your spirit, to make sure you maintain a healthy, happy and lively day-to-day lifestyle.

                                Motivation

Does your teen seem completely Unmotivated? For parents of teens, the refrains of, "whatever", and "I don't care" can become all to familiar.

For me Teens can also be called "Generation why" because they always want to know, "Why am i doing this? And the answer from you as a Parent can't be "Because i told you so". There has to be something within your child that pushes him past the incoveniences, the shortcomings, and the hiccups that will, without question, arise when he undertakes something that's challenging.

If you're the parent of a teen, you know how much they like to debate and question things. Here's something that I have come to understand from personal experience as a teen. When they finally understand how something benefits them, They will do it long term. If the reason your child does something is only because it's important to you, that is short term motivation and that will end.

The reason also needs to be important to your child. If your daughter is making good grades only because she wants to make you happy, eventually that's going to stop. She needs to have a personal reason WHY. Her personal reason can be that when you do a good job at something difficult, you have a sense of accomplishment. Feeling sense of accomplishment is worth the effort it takes to experince it.

At last I want to say......

I personally find that when you surround yourself with people who are doing what you want to do, it Inspires you. You realize that they are just people, they're not super human. They made some Mistakes and had some roadblocks but they kept going and they are doing what they LOVEE. It makes you think, "WOW, this is possible, If this guy did it, why can't i?"

I would also like to Thank my friend and a Superb content writer Vishwapriya for sharing her share of experiences, Which helped me a lot to come up with this article......... You really are a lifesaver and an intellectual being.... :)...... HOPE U LIKE IT.......

                                WHY ME!!!!!!!!

Hello Teens.

Yesterday my cousin who's in tenth standard sent me this poem she wrote a year back. Trust me, I was shocked to read the poem the way she felt and thought to share it with you all.

Do you all feel the same way ?

Then read it and let us know..?




Here it goes.!!

I wrote this poem when I was, well, in a difficult time of my life. Something happened, I was not happy, and this poem was born. After reading this, I hope that all the parents of children and teens will pause and rethink their actions towards the kids. Do they deserve it? Have you been paying attention to what's happening to them? Take a moment and think about the effects your words will have on a child. Hearts are fragile and can easily shatter.

Hope you all like it, and please leave comments!



Is it wrong to ask for appreciation?

Is it sinful to want to be

Loved?

Don't I deserve the same respect,

Love,appreciation as anyone else?

Why are you treating me this way?

What have I done to you?

You only see the appearance of a happy me

Not the silent tears cried on moonless nights

You only see the lazy and dumb me

Not the one who sits working burning the midnight oil

Happy,carefree,lazy,inconsiderate

Those are FAKE !

Sad,lonely,excluded,pain

Are for REAL!

Behind a mask no one can see

What is really happening to me

Tears falling like a waterfall

Forging ahead till point of utter exhaustion




Giving up my good childhood times

For what? For whom ?

For you.

Yet you don't care , not a bit

But I can't stop

Coz I'm here to fool everyone

For keeping up the image and reputation

And the moon and the stars.

Why do you abandon me in time of stress?

I'm just as tired as everyone

I worked hard

I became independent

Yet you complain

You suck

I trust you

I step away

I rely on you

And the world falls apart

I ask you why? What should we do ?

You yell,Go away!you Brat!

And all things are not nice

In this world of loneliness

What should a TEEN DO..??

Parents don't care,too busy they say

What should I do ???