Motivation

Does your teen seem completely Unmotivated? For parents of teens, the refrains of, "whatever", and "I don't care" can become all to familiar.

For me Teens can also be called "Generation why" because they always want to know, "Why am i doing this? And the answer from you as a Parent can't be "Because i told you so". There has to be something within your child that pushes him past the incoveniences, the shortcomings, and the hiccups that will, without question, arise when he undertakes something that's challenging.

If you're the parent of a teen, you know how much they like to debate and question things. Here's something that I have come to understand from personal experience as a teen. When they finally understand how something benefits them, They will do it long term. If the reason your child does something is only because it's important to you, that is short term motivation and that will end.

The reason also needs to be important to your child. If your daughter is making good grades only because she wants to make you happy, eventually that's going to stop. She needs to have a personal reason WHY. Her personal reason can be that when you do a good job at something difficult, you have a sense of accomplishment. Feeling sense of accomplishment is worth the effort it takes to experince it.

At last I want to say......

I personally find that when you surround yourself with people who are doing what you want to do, it Inspires you. You realize that they are just people, they're not super human. They made some Mistakes and had some roadblocks but they kept going and they are doing what they LOVEE. It makes you think, "WOW, this is possible, If this guy did it, why can't i?"

I would also like to Thank my friend and a Superb content writer Vishwapriya for sharing her share of experiences, Which helped me a lot to come up with this article......... You really are a lifesaver and an intellectual being.... :)...... HOPE U LIKE IT.......

                                WHY ME!!!!!!!!

Hello Teens.

Yesterday my cousin who's in tenth standard sent me this poem she wrote a year back. Trust me, I was shocked to read the poem the way she felt and thought to share it with you all.

Do you all feel the same way ?

Then read it and let us know..?




Here it goes.!!

I wrote this poem when I was, well, in a difficult time of my life. Something happened, I was not happy, and this poem was born. After reading this, I hope that all the parents of children and teens will pause and rethink their actions towards the kids. Do they deserve it? Have you been paying attention to what's happening to them? Take a moment and think about the effects your words will have on a child. Hearts are fragile and can easily shatter.

Hope you all like it, and please leave comments!



Is it wrong to ask for appreciation?

Is it sinful to want to be

Loved?

Don't I deserve the same respect,

Love,appreciation as anyone else?

Why are you treating me this way?

What have I done to you?

You only see the appearance of a happy me

Not the silent tears cried on moonless nights

You only see the lazy and dumb me

Not the one who sits working burning the midnight oil

Happy,carefree,lazy,inconsiderate

Those are FAKE !

Sad,lonely,excluded,pain

Are for REAL!

Behind a mask no one can see

What is really happening to me

Tears falling like a waterfall

Forging ahead till point of utter exhaustion




Giving up my good childhood times

For what? For whom ?

For you.

Yet you don't care , not a bit

But I can't stop

Coz I'm here to fool everyone

For keeping up the image and reputation

And the moon and the stars.

Why do you abandon me in time of stress?

I'm just as tired as everyone

I worked hard

I became independent

Yet you complain

You suck

I trust you

I step away

I rely on you

And the world falls apart

I ask you why? What should we do ?

You yell,Go away!you Brat!

And all things are not nice

In this world of loneliness

What should a TEEN DO..??

Parents don't care,too busy they say

What should I do ???

                                      Follow your heart? or Follow your mind?

The teenage is usually considered a phase, where one either easily can get diverted or moulded in any shape.So today we are going to discuss about the small sutalties that a teenager faces, when it comes to the choice whether to choose your BRAIN...... or follow your HEART.....

The same voice in your mind that told you to act, is the same voice that ridicules you later for making the choice. Unfortunately it's typical in our society to get the conflicts between what we want to do and what we feel is practical. Even if you really feel like it's the right choice, how do you know for sure?How do you know it's not just what you think you should do?

But there's no one denying the fact that it is a real problem. It ruins lives because people can't make up their minds about,  whether or
not the path of their heart is the same as you think or not. They end up living in a shadow of the possibility that they could, so it's better to have a clear perception of things you want and things you want to follow.


So here are the steps you can take to make your mind and brain work together........

1> Avoid getting confused between purpose of your heart and mind

2> Tame the mind....

3> Think about each of your decisions

4> Get in practice of a new habit - Have you ever wondered how to tell whether a decision is right or wrong?It seems so difficult isn't it? But it becomes so easy when you think "Is this choice going against me or with me?". Trust me you find the right choice immediately....


           I TRIED TO BELIEVE LIKE I BELIEVED WHEN I WAS 5... WHEN YOUR HEART TELLS EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO KNOW............:)

   

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Exams Are No Big Deal   

 Ease up friends. I know examination are near and these words of mine have no effect on you at all.
We are not here, today to give you advice's , instead we are here to make you all feel more light and fresh when you are writing tour exams.

I understand that these examination are necessary evil , with your parents forcing you to be with your books all the time. With your teachers expecting you to score well. With your peers , so as to show them who's the boss. With your nightmares of failure and poor performance.

I understand that tension during exams is unavoidable but do not let that increase and effect your preparation. 

 FOLLOW OR...JUST GO THROUGH THESE BASIC TIPS

~ Be confident about your preparation. 

~ Don't think that studying till the last hour is the best practice.

 ~ Proper studying and timely practice will help you gain it ! 

~ Once you are sure that you have studied enough , leave it there .

 DO NOT KEEP PONDERING OVER IT ! 

~ Completely remove the fear from the brain. The more you fear the more you will spoil your confidence. 

~ Finally believe in yourself because it is your life and your exam.

These exams are just the first in the series of tests that initiate you all to the competitive world.
So to conclude....

 LET'S QUIT COMPLAINING ABOUT EXAMS . THEY WILL BE AS EASY AS PIE IF WE TRY OUR BEST 
COZ
EXAMS ARE NO BIG DEAL !!!!!!